Father's Day is a day that recognises and appreciates the influence, love, and support that fathers and father figures provide. It's an occasion that can strengthen family bonds, foster emotional connections and remind us of the enduring importance of fatherhood in our lives.

It's not just a day for biological fathers. Father's Day also acknowledges and honours stepfathers, grandfathers, uncles, and other male figures who have played a significant role in someone's life.

I have been blessed to have a father who was an extremely strong guide throughout my formative years. My father unfortunately passed away in 2006 and there is now a gap in what would’ve continued to be an important relationship as an adult. However, I look back over my childhood with gratitude and hope I can be the positive influence in my own children that my father had on me and my brothers.

As I shared in last week’s Chapel, being present in the moment is a foundation to building relationships. Being intentionally present fosters strong emotional bonds between adults and children. When kids feel that they have your undivided attention, they are more likely to open up and share their thoughts and feelings.

Children who feel valued and heard, are more likely to have higher self-esteem. Your presence communicates that you care about their thoughts and feelings, boosting their self-worth.

The time you spend with your children forms the basis of cherished memories for both you and them. These memories contribute to a positive family culture and can have a lasting impact on their adult lives.

Ephesians 3:15 - God is the Father above all fathers.

“God is the Father from whom all fatherhood derives its name.”

Yours in Christian service

Brad Moss

Principal  

In our fast-paced world filled with distractions, being intentionally present with kids can be challenging but is all the more essential. It requires making a conscious effort to prioritise your children and create meaningful connections with them.

To me, there is a purpose to Father’s Day. It is a day set aside for us as father figures to reflect on how we, as men, speak life into the children in our care. Our role is to be the wisdom and encouragers to raise the next generation of strong, empathetic and confident people.